Empilweni, akukhona okwenzayo, noma onakho noma okuhlangenwe nakho okubaluleke kakhulu, okubaluleke kakhulu ukuba nomuntu eceleni kwakho okwaziyo ukubaluleka kwakho; umuntu okuthandayo, okusekelayo futhi okugqugquzelayo ezikhathini ezinzima ... Iqiniso noma Amanga?