Ubuhle obumnyama / base-Afrika: "Uthando lweqiniso", Uthando alugugi, uthando alubhalwa ephepheni, ngoba lungasulwa; uthando aluqoshwa etsheni; ngoba ingahle yephulwe, kepha uthando lweqiniso lubhalwe enhliziyweni futhi lapho luyohlala unomphela… (VIDEO)

• Ubulili abulona uthando. Uthando akulona ucansi. "Ungalali futhi ungabi othandweni. »
  
• Ungaba othandweni futhi ungabi nobulili. 
  
• Umuntu angakuzonda futhi aqhubeke ocansini nawe. Hlakanipha. 
  
• Ukusebenzisa ucansi ukuze usebenzise indoda kuyogcina ihluleka. “Kuyinkohliso ukucabanga ukuthi ukumnikeza ucansi kuzomenza amthande.» 
• Uthando lwangempela ngeke lukuphoqe ukuba ulale ucansi.
• Indoda engakuthandi ngeke ishintshe umqondo wayo ngenxa yezocansi.
• Uma ekutshela ukuthi "uqinisekise uthando lwakho" ngokulala naye, usebenzisa wena kuphela uma enza ucansi. "Ucansi oluhamba phambili luzomenza aqhelelene nawe."

Ukuzenza "Isigqila Sezocansi" kuwubuwula. Uthando alusoze lakuphoxa noma lwehlise isithunzi sakho. Uma wenze iphutha ngokuzama ukusebenzisa ucansi ukuthenga le ndoda, manje yisikhathi sokuhlola kabusha ubudlelwano bakho bese ubakha ngonyawo lwesokudla. Uma ekushada ngoba "ucansi luhle" kuzobulala umshado wakho. Makakushade, ngoba uyakuthanda, uyakuhlonipha, uzizwa ehlangene ngokomzwelo, ngokwengqondo nangokomoya; futhi ufuna ukuthi uchithe impilo yakhe yonke nawe.

Ungalokothi wesabe ukwenza izitha, ngoba kuyindima, kuyimpoqo kulowo olandela inkanyezi yakhe "Unikezelwe kuwo wonke amaLadan, amaBlack Ladies / African kuphela"

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