Iseluleko samahhala sabesifazane / amantombazane: ubulili nothando kudlula amagama; indoda eshadile ayidingi ukuya ocansini, kepha kunalokho kufanele ithunyelwe "Uma kuziwa emshadweni, ukuzithoba yilokho amadoda akudinga ukuzithoba hhayi ukuthi kuya ocansini ngempela yini"

Odadewethu abathandekayo besifazane / amantombazane, bayazi ukuthi uma indoda ikulungele ukushada ayibheki kuphela owesifazane / intombazane ezomenelisa ngokocansi, kepha kunalokho owesifazane / intombazane ezithobayo kuye, emhloniphayo, ngubani iyamlalela, imbone futhi imphathe njengenkosi, umngane.

• Ubulili: bonke abesifazane / amantombazane ku unayo; kepha akubona bonke abesifazane / amantombazane abanokuthobeka. Uma ungowesifazane / intombazane ethobekile uyisitholi esingajwayelekile, umcebo ofihliwe, owesifazane / intombazane yegolide. Futhi indoda eqotho izokwesaba ukulahlekelwa nguwe.

• ngeshwa, amantombazane / abesifazane abaningi abasha kulezi zinsuku babiza ukuzithoba "Ukulawula" Futhi, bona uthi: Angifuni noma iyiphi indoda ezongilawula, oh !! Ngenza engikufunayo. Yintando yeningi, ngikhululekile. Silapha 21ème ekhulwini (...)

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